Frequently Asked Questions
Will the baby look like me?
No. With gestational surrogacy, the surrogate carries a child not biologically related to herself. The eggs used to create the embryos come from either the intended mother, or an egg donor.
Do I have to use injectable medication?
Most of the time, yes. At least one of your medications is likely to be a self-administered injection. Most surrogates have no problem with this, and we provide training on how to self-administer medications when it comes to that time.
Will I have to take hormones?
Yes. You will take estrogen and progesterone to prepare your body to accept the embryo, and for a few weeks after the embryo transfer procedure to support the pregnancy until your body takes over by itself.
Does the embryo transfer procedure hurt?
No. An embryo transfer procedure is no more uncomfortable than a pap smear, and is over within just a few minutes. After your procedure, you can usually go straight home. You won't be under any kind of anesthesia.
Do I have to travel to deliver the baby if my intended parents live far away?
No. The intended parents will travel to you. You choose your own OBGYN for prenatal care, and where you want to deliver. You may travel for medical screening and embryo transfer, if your IPs' clinic is away from where you live, but all travel will be covered.
Is being a surrogate dangerous?
All pregnancies carry some degree of risk, whether conceived naturally or via IVF. Generally, being a surrogate is no more dangerous than carrying your own pregnancy. Your intake coordinator will go over all the risks of pregnancy with you during your intake process.
What happens if the embryo transfer fails?
Failed transfers are not uncommon, and are an unfortunate part of some surrogacy journeys. Most of the time, the intended parents will want you to try again, up to 3 attempts. If 3 attempts fail, they will likely discuss options with their doctor, including whether to change surrogates.
How do I receive my payments?
Surrogacy compensation is paid from an escrow account which is managed by a legal team. Payments will be made according to your surrogacy contract, and are generally paid out monthly.